What the path puts us through

Overheard: “I could never handle what your path puts you through.”

It’s not “what this path puts me through.” Any authentic path will put you through exactly what you need for your authentic self to awaken.

What it puts you through is exactly what’s needed to develop the qualities and capacities you need to become the being that you took human incarnation to become.

An authentic path will also give you the *support* you need to accomplish this, including mentors, practices, and community of practitioners all going through the same thing. If you’re walking alone, you are making it all *much* harder than it needs to be.

Then the time comes when it’s less “what it’s putting you through” than it is kisses from the Universe beckoning you forward…

Becoming a Better Person

I hate to break it to you… but the spiritual path will not make you a “better person.” It is not about self-improvement or looking good or becoming “peaceful” or “harmonious” or even “empowered.” It is not about making fewer mistakes in life or attaining some standard of acceptability. It won’t necessarily make you pleasant to be around…

If you want those things, I recommend looking elsewhere.

The spiritual path — IF you actually follow it and not some concept of it — will make you authentic and it will bring greater and greater integrity to your thought, words, and deeds. It will strip away what is false and conditioned and will free you of your need for people to like or approve of you, of your need to get a lot done, and of needing to “know what’ going on” and to control yourself and others. It will unburden you of what does not properly belong to you and will give you what’s real about you, continually renewed from a Boundless Source of joy and aliveness.

The First Deep Knowing

Everyone talks about their first job, their first car, their first love. These are important landmarks in the living of a full life. However, there is another first which does not receive its requisite attention. Our first spiritual experience – a deep knowing, a feeling of connection with something that is infinite and eternal. This first connection is life defining.

I am nine years old, living in Baghdad during the Iran Iraq war. My beloved grandmother is visiting us from India. My mother invites all the women and girls from the neighborhood to commemorate the Prophet’s birthday (Milad-Un-Nabi). About 50 women gather together to feast on my mother’s food. Afterwards, we settle down with steaming cups of tea to sing together. We sing Elahi’s/Naats in Arabic, Bangla and Urdu/Hindi. Hymns praising the Prophet (Peace and blessings upon him), his birth mother (PBUH), his milk mother (PBUH), his wife (PBUH) and his daughter (PBUH). Singing, remembering and embodying not just the noble attributes of the Prophet (PBUH) but also The Women. Strong, resilient women.

It is by remembering that we keep them alive in our hearts and our lives. The songs told their stories, which I knew. These women had captivated my mind and held my heart as their willing hostage since I first heard their stories at bedtime. Tell me again the story of Fatima (PBUH, the daughter of the Prophet), I would beg my grandmother as she tried to get me to sleep. It is said that Fatima would glow like a radiant sun, all different hues at different times of the day. Hearing this story, like a little moon, I too absorbed her light (Nur). Radiating love and peace, I would drift off to sleep.

At the Milad-Un-Nabi, the women and girls sing into the twilight. It is magnificent and moving. There is palpable magic, mystery and power in the beauty of these women – raised voices, bowed heads. Great reverence. They are calling the divine in, the air is thicker and warmer now. There is a presence of energy that is tangibly different than that of the women and girls, whom I know and love. There is a vibrational quality to this felt energy. I feel the humming sensation for days. As an absent minded, day dreaming child lost in her books, the adults notice no difference in my behavior. When the humming at last abates, it leaves a deep yearning in its wake. To the child that I was, it felt like a deep hunger, but not one satiated by food.

The women and girls, bodies and souls deeply nourished by the presence of the divine in each other and beyond the veil, bundle up and stumble out into the cold night. The memory of that day has stayed with me. When I lapse into forgetfulness, it bubbles up to the surface as a lasting reminder of my mortal yearning for connection with the eternal.

Azra Rahim M.D.

“Journeys and Awakenings: Wisdom for Spiritual Travelers”

Sacred Spirit Books is proud to announce the publication of Journeys and Awakenings: Wisdom for Spiritual Travelers, edited by Robert Corman and others. Featured writers include artists, entrepreneurs, philosophers, musicians, teachers, ecologists, and astrophysicists — each essay sheds essential light on what it takes to be a caring and effective citizen in the world today.

Originally the brainchild of Seven Pillars House of Wisdom, an educational organization that arose from a “resolute desire to help create a more harmonious and thriving world,” Journeys and Awakenings is comprised of twenty-nine accounts of “living into the Wisdom of life,” which are designed to educate and inspire readers to likewise engage fully with themselves and the beautiful world we inhabit together.

Topics explored include our connection to the universe, those in need, perceptions of beauty, ecology, children, indigenous people, sacred places, life on the streets, and the role of the arts, music, and dance.

Some of the book’s highlights include: an ongoing dialogue between writer William Irwin Thompson, Sufi leader Pir Zia Inayat-Khan, and spiritual philosopher David Spangler, titled “On Prophecy and Time”; an erudite essay on the sense of smell by acclaimed author and editor Christopher Bamford, titled “The Odor of the Gods”; and an essay titled “The Islamic Notion of Beauty” by famed Islamic and Sufi scholar William C. Chittick.  

Writers and interviewees include William Irwin Thompson, Pir Zia Inayat-Khan, Christopher Bamford, Jane Goodall, David Spangler, Lee Irwin, William C. Chittick, Llewellyn Vaughan-Lee, Winona La Duke, Chief Arvol Looking Horse, Nambaryn Enkhbayar, Diana Beresford-Kroeger, Adam Bucko, Satish Kumar, Sister Joan Kirby, Yuval Ron, Charles Eisenstein, and others, each a luminary in their field. 

Foreward by Pir Zia Inayat-Khan